Feeling Stuck After Divorce? Here’s How to Begin Again—with Faith and Clarity
- Tamra Hollingsworth
- Apr 2
- 2 min read
Divorce can feel like everything familiar has fallen apart—and sometimes, like you’ve fallen apart with it. It’s messy, emotional, and at times, downright overwhelming. You’re doing your best to hold it together for your kids (or just for yourself), but inside, you might feel lost, exhausted, or stuck in survival mode.
The good news? This doesn’t have to be the end of your story.
Start with Grace, Not Pressure
Give yourself permission to not have it all figured out. Healing isn’t linear, and moving forward doesn’t mean rushing into something new—it means making space for peace, one small decision at a time.
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” – Matthew 11:28 (NIV)
Reclaim Your Identity
Divorce can leave you questioning who you are now. Are you still a good parent? A strong woman? Someone worthy of love and peace? The answer is yes. You are still you—maybe even becoming more of who you were always meant to be.
Try this: Write down 3 truths about who you are in God’s eyes. Start anchoring your identity in that truth instead of the pain.
Focus on What You Can Control
You may not be able to control your ex’s behavior or how everything shakes out legally—but you can choose how you show up, how you speak to your kids, and how you care for your heart.
Tip: Begin setting one boundary that protects your peace—even if it’s as simple as not answering non-urgent texts after 6pm.
You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
There’s power in asking for help. Whether you lean on faith, trusted friends, or a coach who’s been there—I want you to know this: you're allowed to be supported.
I help people move from survival to stability every day, and I’d be honored to walk beside you too.
If you're ready to take a small step toward peace, I’d love to invite you to a free discovery call.
No pressure—just a space to talk, reflect, and explore what support could look like for you.
You don't have to rebuild your life alone. Let's talk.
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